Third Sector leaders celebrate the vibrancy of the Hull and East Yorkshire network

Networking at HEY Confident Futures event

Seventy seven leaders from the Hull and East Yorkshire voluntary, community and social enterprise sector came together last week at the Hull Truck Theatre for a jam packed day celebrating a new cohort of twelve emerging leaders from the HEY Confident Futures leadership network, and a vibrant year of connecting and collaboration.

Starting with an engaging warm up led by BeGreatFitness, the day involved a dazzling array of inspiring speakers interspersed with a hearty throng of networking and collaborating.

Rachel Fellows from Bettys speaking

Rachel Fellows, Collaborative CEO of the Yorkshire food empire Bettys and Taylors Group opened the presentations by telling us of Bettys values; that everyone in the organisation needed to have a sense of place and belonging and how they lived by the fact that there is fairness, opportunities and openings for every single person in the organisation.

The audience were fascinated by the fact that Bettys has not one but five CEOs all collaborating bringing five times the experience just one CEO could have and how because of that the CEO board were experts in Sustainability, Communications, Finance, the workforce and governance all in one go.

‘Our philosophy is all about ‘Sharing the risk and spreading the load’ And how did they recruit the different CEOs? For their attitude as much as for their skills.’

– Rachel Fellows, CCEO, Bettys and Taylors Group

Beth Goddard who has been coaching the New to Leadership cohort talked us through her personal journey to leadership. Stressing the lows as much as the highs and how her life experiences had got her to the place she was today.

‘Everyone needs to ‘find their why’ and remember the mantra of ‘Know yourself, be yourself and take care of yourself.’

– Beth Goddard, Coach

This became a theme for many of the leaders throughout the day. Beth also talked about learning to say No and giving other people opportunities.

The audience then divided, half into a breakout room entitled ‘Find your badass’ where some of the twelve new leaders confidently shared their learning journey and how their lives had changed from doing the course.

We heard how to flip your imposter syndrome and instead find your strengths. Are you people-focused, measured, purposeful or Imaginative? These are all traits of a good leader and we don’t all have them all!

HEY confident futures cohort 2022

One personal story from a new leader was told by Severine Kipili from the Bora Shabaa Refugee Support Group whose journey from the Congo, via years in a refugee camp in Zambia to setting up a group for refugees in Hull, has given her the strength and skills to help others. Before the leadership course she did not believe in herself, but now has gained confidence and that leadership strengthens the people she helps too.

‘Some leadership qualities you can learn, some are natural. The New to Leadership course gave us the insight how to maximise our strengths. I now have the confidence to look people in the eye. Being a badass is a compliment. It takes guts, it takes being vulnerable. It involves effort. It embraces humanity.’

– Severine Kipili, Bora Shabaa Refugee Group Hull

At the same time Spencer Locker, Senior T2 Consultant went through Social Styles to improve communication in Leadership. To a rapt audience Spencer dispelled the myth that we should treat others as we want to be treated, but instead treat them how they want to be treated. He explored the four main communication styles of leadership and how understanding these helps us connect and collaborate.

Hull Truck Theatre’s Associate Director (Creative Learning), Tom Saunders demonstrated how to tell our stories, and bring drama to them by bringing two fun actors act out a date scene and have the audience make suggestions on how they could improve their dating skills. It was hilarious and engaging and ended with everyone knowing more how they can tell their own story in a more engaging way.

After some awards championing the leaders who shone in unconventional ways, Abdou Sidibe,  Deputy Director of Partnerships at the National Lottery Community Fund closed the day talking about how we can create the environment and opportunities for others, giving them the confidence to be the leader they can be.

It echoed much of what had been learnt and everyone left the auditorium that bit taller, that bit more confident and most definitely with a wider network of people to collaborate with.

Harriet Johnson presenting at HEY Confident Futures

Harriet Johnson of Two Ridings Community Foundation, who heads up the HEY Confident Futures network, summed up the day:

‘The space was absolutely buzzing. It was wonderful to see all these people together, practising much of what they have learnt and strengthening not just the network but the whole region from their rich collaboration. I am so proud of what they have achieved and Hull and East Yorkshire are stronger and more vibrant for it.

Find out all about HEY Confident Futures Leadership Network